*Beautiful letter written by a father to his son and daughter *

*Beautiful letter written by a father to his son and daughter *
Must send to your children

Following is a letter to his daughter from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster and Child Psychologist.
The words are actually applicable to all of us, young or old, children or parents.!
This applies to all sons & daughters too.
All parents can use this in their teachings to their children.

Dear Children,

I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons

*A).* Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable, nobody knows how long he lives.
*B).* I am your father, and if I don't tell you these, no one else will.
*C).* Whatever written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches.

*Remember the following as you go through life*

The Right Time ....!

I feel it's the right time
To act on my good wishes
That I have kept pending for a while

I feel it's the right time
To throw away the unwanted
luggage carrying all these days

I feel it's the right time
To live for myself
Than living for the material world

I feel it's the right time
To have a positive change
Than working on the negative thoughts

PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE

Mohamed Rafee  நாகூர் ரூமி:
PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE நான் அதைப் படித்துப் பார்த்தேன். அற்புதமான சில கருத்துக்கள் அதில் இருந்தன. அவற்றைத் தொகுத்து உங்களுக்காக  இங்கே தருகிறேன்:
PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE
RICK WARREN
•    Focusing on ourselves will never reveal our life's purpose
•    The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness. It's far greater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams and ambitions. If you want to know why you were placed on this planet, you must begin with God. You were born by his purpose and for his purpose.
•    You didn't create yourself, so there is no way you can tell yourself what you were created for!
•    You cannot arrive at your life's purpose by starting with a focus on yourself. You must begin with God, your Creator. You exist only because God wills that you exist. You were made by God and for God-and until you understand that, life will never make sense. It is only in God that we discover our origin, our identity, our meaning, our purpose, our significance, and our destiny. Every other path leads to a dead end.

Health Better than Riches

The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “There is nothing wrong with being rich for those who fear Allah, but for those who fear Allah, good health is better than riches. And peace of mind is also a blessing.” [Musnad Ahmad]

This hadith tells us: 

(1) If we fear Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) then wealth won’t hurt us because we will use it appropriately.  

How to Prevent Your Kids from Becoming Spoiled

Raising children is not an easy task, because different things, small and large, can affect them and shape the people they will become. It is only natural that as parents, we sometimes make mistakes that eventually enable us to learn how to act in the future, but unfortunately, some of these mistakes can have far-reaching effects and make our children spoiled, both as toddlers and as adults. In order not to fall into the parental traps that make our children spoiled, it’s important to identify problematic behavior in children and cut it out at the root.

These are the 8 things that make children spoiled that you have to stop doing now to prevent them from becoming spoiled adults!

1. You explain things to your children too much

When you give your children reasons and explanations for what you ask of them, they mimic this behavior and do exactly as you do. Sentences like "If you don’t clean up your room you won’t find anything in the mess," make children think they a reason is needed for everything and they’ll come back at you in the same currency with questions like "Why do I have to clean my room, it’s just going to get messy again anyway? This mechanism of question-answer-reason will cause each parent to become confused, flustered, eventually succumb to the child's will, which as a result will make them think they need a reason for everything they are asked to do. By winning the arguments and getting what they want, the child will become spoiled.

What’s the solution?

In order to solve the problem of argumentation, you must be assertive and make your child understand that there are certain things that need to be done even if we don’t want to do them, like cleaning the room. Give them clear instructions, without negotiating such as, "You have to clean your room before you watch TV." To make it easier to stand up for yourself, adopt general phrases that you can use in a variety of areas, such as "In this family, everyone needs to clean their room" so that the child understands that there are clear rules and you don’t have to give a reason for everything.