Is man’s fate pre-destined or does he have freedom of will?

Is our fate completely pre-destined? Some say we have a choice of which path to choose but what you will find at the end of the path has been chosen for you by Allah. I have also read that qadar was perhaps created by Jahm b. Safwan, not Allah. 
Where can I find the information in the Quran and if there is a set destiny how much of it is chosen by God? Is there really a set day on which I will have birth and another for earthly death, for whom I will marry?
What if I did meet the man I am supposed to marry but I somehow choose the wrong path (so I may believe) only to realize I did wrong. Will he come in my path again or have I altered my destiny so that my punishment may be that I can not have this person in my life?.
Praise be to Allaah.  
Belief in al-qadar (the divine will and decree) is one of the pillars of faith, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, when he answered Jibreel’s question about faith: “(It means) believing in Allaah, His angels, His Books, His Messengers and the Last Day, and to believe in al-qadar (the divine decree) both good and bad.”
What is meant by al-qadar is that Allaah has decreed all things from eternity and knows that they will happen at times that are known to Him, and in specific ways, and that He has written that and willed it, and they happen according to what He has decreed. [al-Qada’ wa’l-Qadar by Dr ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Mahmoud, p. 39].

some information about holy quran

How many Sura are in Holy Quran ?

114

2.

How many Verses  are in Holy Quran ?

6666.

3.

How many dots are in Holy Quran ?

1015030.

4.

How many over bar (zaber) are in Holy Quran ?

93243

5.

How many under bar ( Zaer ) are in Holy Quran ?

39586

6.

How many Raque are in Holy Quran ?

1000.

7.

How many stop ( Waqf ) are in Holy Quran ?

5098.

Ruler’s Betrayal Worst

The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “On the Day of Resurrection, for every betrayer a banner will be raised according to the extent of his betrayal, and no betrayal is greater than that of a ruler.” [Muslim]

Rulers are responsible for the greatest number of people, thus their betrayal is the greatest. A leader’s or ruler’s betrayal is regarded as being so bad because it affects many people, and because he possesses power and authority, so he has no need to resort to betrayal.

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CHILDREN AND THEIR EMOTIONS

Very recently a talk show was arranged near Nagercoil by the students,faculty and professor of sociology department of Holy cross college. Dr Habibullah Senior Pediatrician and Adolescent Psychologist addressed the student community and gave a special talk on ‘emotions and adolescents’ and elaborated how bad emotions affect their studies and their day to day activities in their personal life. Hundreds of students and their families attended the special seminar and benefited from the program. Rev.Father Dr Rajan presided over the function.