It is Satan who separates between husband and wife and no one else.
This is every house’s call that her mother in-law
or his mother is creating separation between us. Unfortunately you will
not find anybody speaking on it due to a reason, neither scholars of Islaam nor the society, but the voice tears the four walls only when a big loss takes place secretly inside the four walls like bride burning etc.
First of all we request and advise the
mothers and request those who read this to convey it to mothers that
please don’t put your son in such a situation where neither can he speak
nor keep quite. He cannot speak back his mother because Islaam does not
allow him; he cannot keep quite because injustice is happening to his
wife. If he speaks back to his mother in an unlike manner, he earns
direct ticket to hell, on the other hand if he remains silent on seeing
the oppression over his wife he earns hell; on both ways man is hell doomed.
There are endless reasons why this
situation arises in every home and turns into its worst in maximum
homes; the fundamental reason is that mother in-law is not happy with
her daughter in-law due to endless reasons.
A person said, “She becomes unhappy with
me when she sees me & my husband laughing with each other. She hates
when my husband plays with his children & in turn she oppresses me
in one or the other way.”
We see in Hindu society
society that daughter in-law is under the control of mother in-law in
every manner. She cannot move out, visit her parents without the
permission of her mother in-law even though her husband allows her.
Hindu tradition has damaged the Indian society at a very large extent.
It says husband is your god and you shall not return to your parents
home but dead even though you may be suffering a great amount of
oppression from husband or from your in-laws. Killing the female baby
child, bride burning, dowry given by the wife to her in-laws,
considering women less human than men etc are nothing but the teachings
of the Hindu culture.
Since we know the effect of bad company, Muslim society became part and
parcel of this ruthless culture because we were ignorant about Islaamic
teachings even at present.
The result of this rift within the four
walls has resulted to many disasters, one of them is ‘bride burning’. It
is man goes to work or for job in the morning, his wife is alone with
his mother and family members at home and so they set his wife in fire
by throwing at her kerosene oil. Sometimes husband is one of them who
sets his wife in fire but that is a separate topic.
