Thursday, September 16, 2010

Become a Better Man, the Best you can be

1. Be funny and Teasing
I say that humor is magic, and it isn’t an exaggeration. Humor is the fastest, most powerful way to become irresistible to  women, even women you might consider “out of your league.” Make a people around you laugh, and I don’t care how hot or unattainable she seems, you’ll trigger positive feelings in her that she just can’t ignore. So if you’re naturally funny, go with it. If you’re not a natural crack-up, it’s time to learn. Study online. Read books. Watch live comedy shows. Do whatever it takes, because when you can make others laugh, she knows you are fun to be with and she will not ignore you anymore. How can you be different from the truck loads of boring guys the woman you want has gone out with in the past? One way is to learn how to tease her in exactly the right way — a way that shows her that you are confident, funny and, of course, a challenge. Or, to put it simply, just the kind of guy she’d love to see again. When she asks stupid questions, give stupid answers. Next time she says anything that could be interpreted as “bad” or even “naughty,” ask her to give you her hand, take it, slowly turn it upside down, and gently slap the back of it. If you haven’t made physical contact already, this is a playful and easy way to start. In order for you to become the kind of guy who can crack women up with your teasing and sarcastic remarks, you have to get good at your delivery. I’m talking about a delivery that includes things like eye contact, tone of voice and timing; it’s all important. There will always be a few things that she really, really likes. It could be a certain kind of food, a certain way you touch her, a certain experience. When you find something she really likes, stop, pull back and make her really want it before you tease her with a little more. This can be the source of her greatest pleasure in the entire relationship

 2. Be Interesting
leave her wanting more
What do women want? I’ll tell you what they don’t want: They don’t want to be bored. Sadly, most guys bore women to death, and then wonder why they never get a chance. The solution is to become a deeply interesting guy — the kind of guy women love to learn more about and can’t resist being around. It’s very important to smile and present yourself in a positive manner. Turn everything into adventure, learn to tell a great story and find topics that are naturally interesting to talk about.

3. Leave Her Wanting More

interesting couple
She looks at you, smiles back but she doesn’t at all feel the same as you do about her. Then this is the time when you need her to know  that she wants you in some way in her life. The best way is to leave her wanting more, that is to end everything she’s enjoying on an up note. If she asks you to teach her something, teach her something great that she loves; then, when she asks you to teach her more, tell her: “next time.” If you go somewhere really fun with her and she’s having a great time, right at the peak leave to go do something else, or tell her you have to go. When you’re talking to a woman on the phone for the first time, and the conversation is going great, that’s the time to let her know you have to run. This gets her asking herself why you didn’t ask her out, and if she’s going to get to talk to you again. And that’s a beautiful thing for her to be wondering about.

4. Make her the Center of your Universe

centre of my universeWhen a woman says, “I only like you as a friend” or “I’ve been hurt, so I want to take this slow” or “I like you so much, I don’t want to lose you as a friend” — or any of the million variations of these things — it usually  means that you’re not doing the things it takes to create attraction. She doesn’t feel it for you. And if she doesn’t feel it, then there are no shortcuts, my man. Stop being such a “nice” guy, and start doing the things you’re learning from me to spark some chemistry. Have you heard? Women like attention. But interestingly, it’s much better to hint at that kind of attention than to be over the top in demonstrating it. Example: Instead of buying flashy gifts or dropping obvious compliments, try saying: “I was thinking about you today” or “I just wanted to mention that I really like hearing your voice on the phone.” Ok, before the Men’s Liberation movement gets upset, allow us to simply add this: Make your woman think that all you like her for is the BLT (no, we do not mean bacon, lettuce and tomatoes), and she will not care to keep you around for long. But please her mind by showing an interest (a genuine one) in her family, friends, work, interests, hobbies, and dreams, and she will fall for you. Make sure you let her answer you instead of shooting off a session of 20 questions. It lets her know she means enough to be in your thoughts when she’s not around — and that’s a very powerful way to stand out of the crowd.
 Read more : 10 Ways to Get Her Hooked

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