Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Top 10 Ways to Get Her Hooked

Since times immemorial, men have had to go out and find their lovers — actually, way back before we became evolved men, we just went out, bopped them on the head and took them home. If you’re thinking of taking her out on a date someday, maybe you need to reconsider because she doesn’t even notice you dude! For her you are just another guy in the crowd of losers she sees – until now.

10. Become a Better Man, the Best you can be

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If you want to succeed with women, you need to master the art of self-improvement.  Most men want to have more — or better — women in their lives. However, they don’t know how to make it happen.  I never stop hearing it: Guys think that it takes movie-star looks and rock-star money to attract hot women. The sad truth is, most guys have no clue what it really takes to attract hot women. It’s not pickup lines or fancy clothes or losing a few pounds. But if you really want to get an attractive woman to notice you, you better be one of the few who stands out because he took the time to develop something uniquely interesting about himself. No, do not join the army, even though women like men in uniform. Rather, make sure you smell good, have fresh breath, are well-groomed, and look your best. But who you really are — on the inside — plays a bigger role in your dating life than any of those superficial fixes. Showing a woman that you’re a gentleman is a powerful way to stand out from the crowd, and the smallest gestures go a very long way. Open a door for her and pull out a chair. Make sure you walk on the outside of the sidewalk. Put your hand on the small of her back when walking into a restaurant or across the street. You won’t believe how quickly these small things set you apart from 99% of other guys.

9. Don’t be a Desperate Creep, Give Her Respect

Women are constantly dodging creepy guys, so make sure you don’t come off like one. Championship coaches tell their winning players: “Act like you’ve been here before.” That’s exactly what you need to do with women. The best way to lose one is to get possessive and desperate and start calling her 10 times a day. And if you start acting like that desperate with those lame lines or cheap come-ons, she definitely would only hate you. Most people wish the world, women and even they were different. They whine and complain and act like a victim. They do things that are ineffective because they live in a pretend world in their mind. Instead, accept things the way they are, respect them and their thinking. Once you do, you can start to change the world around you and yourself. You’ll have the power to redirect things as you move into the future. One of the ways you can seek her attention is that you respect her unlike the pervert crowd after her.

8. Be a Little Feisty and Give her Space

Feisty guys are guys that don’t let women take control of them. Women like what they can’t have easily, and having a little bit of feisty attitude helps. Of course you’ve got to gauge the woman, because there are some women who absolutely hate feisty-ness. Most of these guys have some kind of issues with self-esteem or control. Do not thus be domineering or try to be the boss. Men need a certain level of control too. You may like her and want her to like you, but unless you give her space and do not crowd her, she will never be interested. But your feisy-ness should be confined to giving her enough space because a lot of feisty behavior can be too irritating for her. You know the expression about absence making the heart grow fonder? Well, it’s true. So make her miss you: let her wonder where you are, whom you’re with and where you’re going, and she will hope to cross paths with you more often than you think.

7. Use “Little Things” to Woo Her

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There are a ton of “little things” that women look for to help them make big decisions about what kind of man you are. They instantly tell women whether or not you are worthy of a second thought. Maintaining eye contact, strong posture, not fidgeting; all of these are great things for you to pay attention to. By the way, women make these decisions on a subconscious level. They don’t look at a guy, then say to a friend: “Well, he maintained eye contact when I first looked at him, then he held his head up high in a dominant posture, so, I’m going to give him a chance.” Practice these simple steps and a woman will naturally want to spend more time with you.

6. Sound Smart and Initiative

Don’t be afraid to make a move on her. You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to sound smart. Creativity plus stuff you already know can create powerful attraction with a woman. Imagine how you’d come across if you were the most confident guy on the planet. You’d seem so in control that you’d be in no rush. You don’t need to make it a big deal or call it a date.  Just ask her if she wants to go get some lunch or a coffee and get to know her. Even if you know just enough about something to start a conversation, use it to approach a woman and you’ll sound smart. Relate it to her (“Did you know the indirect lighting in here makes your eyes look even bluer?”) and she’ll be hooked — guaranteed.
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