Surat An-Nisā' (The Women) - سورة النساء
Sahih InternationalAnd give the women [upon marriage] their [bridal] gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and ease.
Muhsin KhanAnd give to the women (whom you marry) their Mahr (obligatory bridal money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage) with a good heart, but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, take it, and enjoy it without fear of any harm (as Allah has made it lawful).
Tamil NEWநீங்கள் (மணம் செய்து கொண்ட) பெண்களுக்கு அவர்களுடைய மஹர் (திருமணக்கொடை)களை மகிழ்வோடு (கொடையாக) கொடுத்துவிடுங்கள் - அதிலிருந்து ஏதேனும் ஒன்றை மனமொப்பி அவர்கள் உங்களுக்கு கொடுத்தால் அதைத் தாராளமாக, மகிழ்வுடன் புசியுங்கள்.
Islamic Marriage Nasheed Mascha Allah (MASHALLAH)!
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1- Hazrat 'Aisha (RA) is said to report this marriage quote:
I asked the Prophet, "O Allah's Apostle! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, "Her silence means her consent."
(Bukhari Volume 9, Book 85, Number 79:
1- The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
`O young people! Whoever among you can support a wife should marry, for that is more modest for the gaze and safer for your private parts.'
( Marriage quote from Sahih Muslim, Sahih Bukhari)
3- The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion, so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half."
( Marriage quotation from Bayhqi)
4- The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"A man marries a woman for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character). So marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper".
Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or not to do. Do NOT give commands or instructions like he’s your servant.
“They are garment to each other” [Surah Baqarah, 2:187]
-bless your relationships as you adopt a forgiving attitude (Proverbs 17:9); He who forgives an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter alienates a friend (Proverbs 17:9 RSV).
-be pleased as you keep peace (Psalm 133:1).
-perfect all virtues as you cultivate love (Colossians 3:14).
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. Love is not rude, is not selfish, and does not get upset with others. Love does not count up wrongs that have been done. Love is not happy with evil but is happy with the truth. Love patiently accepts all things. It always trusts, always hopes, and always remains strong. 1Corinthians13:4-7
The art of love is largely the art of persistence. –Albert Ellis
May Allah preserve all of our marriages and help us understand and implement them in and with the best of manners.